Regardless of you views on the war, every American should thank our Armed Forces, past and present, for all their fine work, service and dedication. Support Your Troops is a website that can give you current info on how to go about thanking your solider and/or sailor. I have put some "Proud sister of an Airman," "Proud Daughter-in-Law Navy," etc logos up at my cube at work. For the younger ones, try coloring pages.
Also, since it's 11-11-11, I have found a news article that may interest you. Find it here.